Go Away...Please Don't...

Why couples fight...why they get upset everyday or every alternate day??? Some get upset every 30 minutes as well!!! They go on a date after a fight, may be that helps them to get back to normalcy, atleast they believe so. And they again fight after coming from a date as well. They fight in the college, in the canteen, in front of the cake shop, at night after talking over 4 hours, inside the local train(yes, they still have energy left to start a fight inside Mumbai locals), in front of friends, over chat and in many such weird places and situations that will amuse you, me and everybody.

Now let's spend 120 seconds on the reasons for these fights. Sometimes the boyfriend throws the girl's toothbrush...she says that his mother should not comment that she looks fatty on photographs...he says she does not picks his calls in time...she says he does not give her attention while talking to her...he says XYZ is becoming a friend of hers too fast...she says he has got too many girls in his Orkut friend list...he says that why she wants to have curtains of her aunt's choice after marriage...she says he can never understand her...he says that she analyses him just too much and sometimes he gets confused who exactly she is...she says who called him at midnight yesterday...he says that he bought movie tickets & her male colleague commented it's a flop movie...she discusses her problems with another guy...she says he is obsessive....he says she loves him too much, but not practical...she says she does not know why she loves him...he says he can never love her as much as she does, but that is what the problem...she says that he hates chocolate flavour ice cream...he says she expresses herself too much in the public...she says he does not express himself or his feelings...so on & on & on....to be precise I would say these are only 5% examples...so you can guess now.... Precisely, in the first few years both fight for reasons that includes them, next few years they fight for reasons that affects both, but not necessarily includes both of them and then what happens is you both run out of reasons to fight for. Then both fight for reasons that includes third parties...such as another guy, one more girl or for that matter each other's friends.

They fight every now and then...they reconcile...and 9 out of 10 times they do not find or try to find a solution which may help them not fight on that particular issue. But why? Because when they see each other in the eyes, they just find one thing...love. And after a day or two they start again on the same issue, the magnitude of fight may go bigger...again reconcile...Again solution is kept inside the carpet...love comes back to air again...everything seems to be beautiful again.

I simply hate these fights...these couples...and I hate why they do not find a solution...and they become so blind...When I analyse these instances I laugh.I mean why they even fight when they accepted each other unconditionally. Why they find so many reasons to fight for? Why outsiders become a reason to fight for? Really irritating...really they are...so stupid...so silly...I hate them...and...and..I miss...

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I miss these fights...I miss that someone with whom I can fight...These fights, when analysed, seems so disgusting that you can only laugh. But when you are in love you do not analyse, you love...you care and you forgive...you forget...and you fight again. That's the beauty of love, the power of love. You do not need a solution at all, even when it is most necessary. This heart is such a stupid place that sees nothing except love. 

Miss these moments...miss the love...miss those silly reasons...miss those days...miss that  someone...and those fights...